For those of who may not remember, Gator is a guy I met via Blackberry Messenger. He's a sweet, yet extremely horny, 20-something year old guy. He's crazy about his little boy which is how it should be, and he obviously loves his wife. Gator and I have been come close friends since our chatting began in May. I'll admit that we exchange racy pictures but our talks are not all about sex. Friendship is our main thing, and I'm certainly happy with his friendship.
As I mentioned, Gator is extremely horny. So much so that he shares his racy pictures which anyone woman on BBM that would like to see them. In his defense, he only sends his pictures after he's received one from whichever lady he's chatting with. This is something millions of people over the world do on a daily basis.
Imagine my surprise when the "I'm a fucking idiot" comment came from a him sharing pictures with another BBM contact a few months ago. The bigger surprise was that it's the husband of the woman Gator was chatting with. It seems that this woman (wife and mother and what I would call a "closet slut") shared with Gator and he returned the favor. Admittedly, he got very serious about her... even to the point of wanting me to join the two of them in a 3some.
I can't remember what exactly happened but around two months ago Gator found out that her "these are just for you pics" were went to 5-10 different guys and a few websites. He felt used and stopped chatting with her. I guess she didn't like that because within days Gator was getting PIN messages about him threatening her and making comments. I'm not sure if any of that is true but by then the whole thing was getting to be a little like high school.
Flash forward to this month... The "I'm a fucking idiot" comment was over the fact that this woman's husband filed a complaint against Gator because a few of his racy pics were taken while he was in his uniform. There's been an investigation; he may lose his job and if he does then he'll have to come clean to his wife about why which may lead to him losing his family.
I'm not defending him because it was a stupid thing to do. However, to me the whole thing seems so childish and petty. If the husband is upset about his wife accepting pictures of other men's cocks, then he should be asking her why she did it in the first place.
Gator's whole experience reaffirm why I'm so cautious about sharing personal information with people you really don't know. Because of my profession, I can easily tell from a person's body language and phrases whether I really want them to know who I am or see me buck naked.
So, my advance to anyone who is thinking about sharing the hot picture with this guy/gal from in Timbuktu... does you gut really believe them when they say they're harmless? or is the voice in the back of your head sending you some warning about seeing yourself on that amateur picture site you like to visit occasionally?
Think before you send.
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